You’ve probably given your dog an ear rub, taken them for a walk, given them treats and rewards, and even curated a playlist specifically for them. But you still may have some impending questions.
Why does my dog lean on me? Is it that they trust me? Why does my dog lick me? Could it be that they are hungry? What does it mean when my dog stares at me? Do they hate me?
To understand this canine-human connection, you need to understand how your dog communicates and correctly interpret their intent.
Are Dogs Capable of Trust?
Researchers explain that dogs evolved from wolves, and some suggest that canines displaying friendliness toward humans were rewarded with food and protection, fostering a genetic tendency toward trust.
While dogs naturally develop trust in their human companions, we must understand how to nurture and strengthen that bond. According to an article by the American Psychological Association, psychologist Professor Stanley Coren, suggests that a dog’s intelligence is equivalent to a 2.5-year-old human baby. It indicates that trust plays an essential role between canines and their humans, like babies and their parents. Not only that, a study headed by animal expert Dr. Claudia Fugazza at Eötvös Loránd University in Budapest, also revealed that while dogs and humans are separate species, puppies intuitively trust their human parents the same way they trust other dogs.
Main Signs That Your Dog Trusts You
Does your dog trust you? Dogs show trust either through overt gestures or subtle cues. Here are 7 signs your dog trusts you:
Rolling Onto Their Back in Your Presence
Dogs are at their most vulnerable when they are rolled on their back. If your pup is rolling on their back with their belly exposed, it isn’t just an exercise, it actually signals their profound level of trust in you.
If you are wondering why dogs don’t like to show their bellies to just anyone, it is because an attack on the underbelly can be fatal in the wild. And so, naturally, the dogs only rolling onto their backs in your presence is their way of telling you they trust you. This is also their way of greeting you.
Keeping Eye Contact
Dogs’ stares are a sign of affection and trust. They indicate that they are paying attention to you and looking for advice and comfort.
Interesting fact! Maintaining eye contact with your dog causes the release of oxytocin. According to a study conducted in 2015 by the University of Japan, delayed eye contact between dogs and their human parents can cause an increase in oxytocin levels (a hormone released when you bond with someone) in dogs and humans.
Sleeping With You in the Room
Does your dog prefer to nap when you're around? Whether your dog sleeps on the bed or in their own comfortable spot, having them share a room with you conveys a powerful sense of security. They can unwind fully because of the assurance and comfort you bring.
According to the Better Sleep Council, wild dogs like sleeping in enclosed areas surrounded by their pack members, whom they can trust to keep them safe. And your dog considers you a part of their pack, so they feel the safest sleeping with you in the room.
Looking Up at the Owner in an Uneasy Situation
When your dog feels nervous or uncertain, do they come to you for comfort? Just as people look to others for guidance and reassurance when they trust them, dogs do the same. When things get tough, your dog looks to you for support and depends on you to be there for them.
In a 2013 study, researchers at the University of Pisa revealed that dogs likely see their special people as a secure base, like human children consider their parents. It must be an honor if your dog sees you as a parent who will always guide them in unfamiliar situations.
Giving Stuff Back
Have you ever played catch with your dog just to have them return the toy to you? This seemingly simple gesture is crucial. Most dogs don't enjoy sharing their toys. Your dog's willingness to release the toy displays trust in you.
It can also be your dog’s instinctive desire to please their human parents, which is probably encouraged with praise, scratches, and playtime.
Responding When You Call Them
Does your dog run when you call out their name? A quick response to your voice demonstrates an intense connection and trust.
It demonstrates that your dog loves your relationship and wants to be near you. If your dog trusts you, they will follow your instructions. They have a strong bond with you and believe you have their best interests at heart.
According to an article by Kinship, if your dog responds more to your commands than to those of others, it is a sign that they have imprinted on you. It means that they have developed a deep emotional bond with you.
Wagging Tail a Certain Way
While tail wagging can express a variety of emotions, including happiness, trust, and even despair, a relaxed and rhythmic wag is frequently indicative of trust and contentment, according to PetMD.
To comprehend what your dog is communicating, consider the context and accompanying body language. Tail-wagging and an enthusiastic temperament are excellent indicators of trust. Some dogs may even develop a tail wag reserved especially for you!
A 2007 study conducted by Italian researchers at the University of Bari found that the direction of the tail wagging can tell about the emotions your dog is feeling. More particularly, if your dog is wagging their tail in the right direction, it signals positive emotions. If it is in the left direction, it means your dog is anxious or has seen an unfamiliar person.
How to Make Your Dog Trust You?
If you are struggling with how to get a dog to like you and earn your dog’s trust, well it's simple. According to Zoetis, rewarding your dog's positive behavior with snacks and treats can help them trust you.
Understanding your dog's body language also plays a crucial role in building trust. A wagging tail and a calm face indicate that your dog is happy.
However, avoiding eye contact and tucking their tail under are usually signs of a sad dog. Learning these indicators can help you determine whether your dog is unwell, anxious, or fearful.
Moreover, spending quality time either by playing “fetch” or cuddling can reinforce trust. Zoetis recommends playtime as a trust-building activity. It allows your dog to overcome stress and release some dopamine.
Puppies vs. Adult Dogs
When building trust with your puppy, it is essential to give them time and space so they can approach you whenever they feel comfortable.
Creating a safe environment and spending quality time playing with your pup helps in building trust. Positive reinforcement like treats or a gentle scratch when they follow your command also lends a hand in making your puppy trust you.
Adult dogs thrive on consistent and familiar routines. They may not trust you if their routine keeps changing as, in this case, they don’t know what to expect. It can make you unpredictable, which makes it difficult for your dog to trust you.
Providing your dog exercise, like taking them for walks and training them gently, can help build trust. And, learning your dog’s body language to know what your dog is trying to communicate is a great way to foster a loving and trusting relationship between you two.
Rescue Dogs vs. Dogs Raised From Birth
Since rescue dogs usually move to unfamiliar places, they may feel anxious or shy. So, providing them with a secure environment helps them feel calm and comfortable.
It is also natural for a rescue dog to take time to get used to you and the new home. The best way to help them settle is to give them time and space to approach you. Being gentle and giving proper care and attention also help foster a rescue dog’s trust.
To build trust with a dog raised from birth, you need to handle the puppy gently, offer rewards for positive behaviors, such as approaching you or sitting, provide a consistent routine, a safe and predictable environment, and proper mental and physical stimulation.
Conclusion
When it comes to your beloved companion, trust is the leash you both share. Recognizing signs that your dog trusts you strengthens your friendship and relationship. Cherish those valuable times together; these are what makes your relationship so pawsome.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do dogs miss their owners?
Yes, dogs miss their pet parents. They build strong emotional attachments with their human companions and like children, dogs may show signs of distress or separation anxiety if separated with their owners for an extended time.
Does my dog like me?
Very likely, yes! If your dog is wagging their tail, demanding your attention, and expressing excitement when you're present, they do like you.
What are some signs that an abused dog trusts you?
The signs that an abused dog trusts you include relaxed body language, such as tail wags, soft eyes, loose posture, seeking attention by leaning on you, making eye contact, following you around, and approaching you willingly.
